23 Nov, 2010

When It Burns

Have you ever burned yourself? I once burned my hand on the oven rack while pulling out a pizza. Not only did it hurt right then, it continued to throb and sting for days afterward. In just one careless moment, I managed to suffer long-term consequences, including a scar that lasted for years!

Have you ever been "burned" by someone else? Whether by a careless word or a thoughtless action, one moment can sting us for a long time.

Have you ever "burned" someone? Ever said something you wish you could take back or done something that you regret?

All of these examples have one thing in common: the consequences last much longer than the action itself. So what do we do about burns?

The tongue is a small member, but it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.

James 3:5-6

Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks.

Matthew 12:34

What does God's Story Scripture teach us about burns?

James 3 talks about the power of our speech. Careless words can burn. Once words leave our mouths, we can't take them back. Often, they burn far beyond what we would intend. Like when I burned my hand in the oven, the sting won't go away even after the moment.

We've all experienced the burn of other's words. So it's crucial that we guard our own words to avoid burning others.

How can I connect God's story scripture to my life?

  • Do you watch your words? Do you tend to be careless with what you say? If so, ask God for strength to hold your tongue and choose your words lovingly.
  • How is your heart? When your heart has anger or unforgiveness or hurt in it, we often speak out of that place. Perhaps you need to ask God to help you forgive someone for previous hurts so that you don't speak out of the overflow of a sinful heart.

 

How can I connect God's story scripture and my story to others?

  • Have you been burned by someone's words? It might be time to let them off the hook. Forgive them by praying for them and asking God to help you let it go.
  • Have you burned someone? If you know you've hurt someone with your words this week, go to them and ask forgiveness. You might want to apologize for your careless words and let them know you are working on speaking more lovingly. 
  • Out of the heart, the mouth speaks....it can also help to remember that you can use your mouth for good. Speak a kind or encouraging word to a member of your family or a friend this week. A kind word can be like a healing balm on a burn!
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