13 Nov, 2009

I Must Confess!

"Mom?"

"What, son?" 

"I have to tell you something.  Even if it means I get grounded for the rest of my life." 

"What is it honey?"

"I did something really bad ..." 

That was the conversation I heard through the wall in my office at home just last week.  Our 7-yr.-old was taking a shower, and just lost it!  He was crying so hard we could hardly understand what he was saying.  He couldn't go on until he told us that he and his cousin had put something down a pipe in his great-grandpa's (Pop) back yard.  He was afraid "Pop" would never love him again.  He was afraid that we would be so mad at him that he would be "grounded for life." 

I left my chair and headed in to talk with him when he got out of the shower.  He proceded to explain to me exactly what he and his cousin had done.  His cousin had taken the lid off of an underground fuel tank and put rock in the pipe sticking out of the ground.  I immediately called his great-grandfather to let him know.  He asked to talk to our son, but our son just felt too ashamed.  We continued to talk about confessing and our love for him.  We then talked about God's love and forgiveness.

Later that night our son said, "It feels so good to have told you the truth. I am so glad I'm not keeping that secret anymore!"  

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James 5:16 (ESV)

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.

What does God's Story teach us about confessing?

Jesus has made it possible for us to go directly to God for forgiveness.  But confessing our sins to each other still has an important place in the life of the church.  (1) If we have sinned against an individual, we must ask him or her to forgive us. (2) If our sin has affected the church, we must confess it publicly. (3) If we need loving support as we struggle with a sin, we should confess that sin to those who are able to provide that support. (4) If we doubt God's forgiveness, after confessing a sind to him, we may wish to confess that sin to a fellow believer for assurance of God's pardon.  In Christ's Kingdom, every  believer is a priest to other believers (1 Peter 2:9). (Life Application Bible Study Notes, James 5:16)

Connecting My Story With God's Story

  • Is there something in your life that you need to confess to God?  Take care of that right now! 
  • Is there some secret that you've been keeping that you need to confess to someone in your life?  Take care of that today!
  • Is there someone in your life you need to ask to forgive you?  Take care of that this weekend!
  • Has someone committed a sin against you? Forgive them!
  • Have someone asked for your forgiveness?  Forgive them!
  • Thank God for his incredible power of forgiveness!

Connecting Today's Story, My Story, and God's Story With My Friend's Story

  • Do you know someone who is keeping a secret about something that they have done?  Share Today's Story with them and start a conversation about forgiveness.
  • Do you know someone who is not willing to forgive someone else?  Talk with them about the relief that comes from confessing our sin.
  • Move into talking about the forgiveness that God has to offer for our sinful nature, and the new life He offers in Jesus!
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