Honoring our imperfect dads...

Barack Obama: "I Have Made Mistakes" as a Father

President Barack Obama penned another touching letter to his daughters, Sasha, 8, and Malia, 10, in Parade magazine.

Obama -- who recalled how his girls inspired him to run for office in a January note -- approached the magazine about writing his tribute. Says the editor in chief: "The editing didn't take long. I changed two words for grammatical reasons and added a comma or two."

An excerpt from the message, which ran on Father's Day is below:

I observe this Father's Day not just as a father grateful to be present in my daughters' lives but also as a son who grew up without a father in my own life.

"In many ways, I came to understand the importance of fatherhood through its absence—both in my life and in the lives of others. I came to understand that the hole a man leaves when he abandons his responsibility to his children is one that no government can fill. We can do everything possible to provide good jobs and good schools and safe streets for our kids, but it will never be enough to fully make up the difference.

"We need fathers to step up, to realize that their job does not end at conception; that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child but the courage to raise one.

"I know I have been an imperfect father. I know I have made mistakes. I have lost count of all the times, over the years, when the demands of work have taken me from the duties of fatherhood. There were many days out on the campaign trail when I felt like my family was a million miles away, and I knew I was missing moments of my daughters' lives that I'd never get back. It is a loss I will never fully accept.

"On this Father's Day, I think about the pledge I made to Malia the day she was born: that I would give her what I never had -- that if I could be anything in life, I would be a good father."

photo & story courtesy usmagazine.com; 6/19/09