27 May, 2009

That state of mind

Texting May Be Taking a Toll

They do it late at night when their parents are asleep. They do it in restaurants and while crossing busy streets. They do it in the classroom with their hands behind their back. They do it so much their thumbs hurt.

Spurred by the unlimited texting plans offered by carriers like AT&T Mobility and Verizon Wireless, American teenagers sent and received an average of 2,272 text messages per month in the fourth quarter of 2008, according to the Nielsen Company — almost 80 messages a day, more than double the average of a year earlier.  The phenomenon is beginning to worry physicians and psychologists, who say it is leading to anxiety, distraction in school, falling grades, repetitive stress injury and sleep deprivation.

Dr. Martin Joffe, a pediatrician in Greenbrae, Calif., recently surveyed students at two local high schools and said he found that many were routinely sending hundreds of texts every day.  “That’s one every few minutes,” he said. “Then you hear that these kids are responding to texts late at night. That’s going to cause sleep issues in an age group that’s already plagued with sleep issues.”

The rise in texting is too recent to have produced any conclusive data on health effects. But Sherry Turkle, a psychologist who is director of the Initiative on Technology and Self at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and who has studied texting among teenagers in the Boston area for three years, said it might be causing a shift in the way adolescents develop.

“Among the jobs of adolescence are to separate from your parents, and to find the peace and quiet to become the person you decide you want to be,” she said. “Texting hits directly at both those jobs.”

Psychologists expect to see teenagers break free from their parents as they grow into autonomous adults, Professor Turkle went on, “but if technology makes something like staying in touch very, very easy, that’s harder to do; now you have adolescents who are texting their mothers 15 times a day, asking things like, ‘Should I get the red shoes or the blue shoes?’ ”

As for peace and quiet, she said, “if something next to you is vibrating every couple of minutes, it makes it very difficult to be in that state of mind."

“If you’re being deluged by constant communication, the pressure to answer immediately is quite high,” she added. “So if you’re in the middle of a thought, forget it.”

Michael Hausauer, a psychotherapist in Oakland, Calif., said teenagers had a “terrific interest in knowing what’s going on in the lives of their peers, coupled with a terrific anxiety about being out of the loop.” For that reason, he said, the rapid rise in texting has potential for great benefit and great harm.

“Texting can be an enormous tool,” he said. “It offers companionship and the promise of connectedness. At the same time, texting can make a youngster feel frightened and overly exposed.”

story & photo courtesy of - http://www.nytimes.com/

Mark 1:35 (NIV)

"Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed."

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about that state of mind?

Obviously Jesus didn't have to worry about his prayer time being interrupted by a text message 2000 years ago.  However for those following in the way of Jesus today texting is a very real issue with serious implications.  For some texting is simply a means of convenient communication, for others it is a distraction, a source of anxiety, and a replacement for face to face interaction.  Although we can't say exactly what Jesus' text message habits would be today, one thing is for sure - Jesus simply would not have let anything distract or prevent him from spending time each day in solitary prayer and contemplation. 

All throughout his ministry, even when there was a demand for his time by crowds of people; Jesus would spend time away from the noise and distractions of the world to seek the voice of the Father in solitary prayer, in "that state of mind".  So for those of us that would seek to follow in the way of Jesus, we have a very simple (although difficult) decision to make.  We must put down the phone, turn off the TV, shutdown the Facebook, and spend more time abiding with Christ in prayer. 

  • Track your text messaging habits - is texting actually disconnecting you from what's really important in life?
  • Spend some time alone in prayer today (without your cell phone).
  • Ask a friend if they think texting too much could have damaging side effects.
  • Invite a friend to spend some time with you in a quiet, solitary place.
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